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History of Swinging:
To trace Swinging back to a specific date in history in next to impossible. Different cultures however can trace Swinging back pretty far. It has probably gone on since the beginning of time. Many cultures believe that sharing married partners is fine. Even encouraged. The Inuit tribe of Alaska is a perfect example. The specific beginnings of modern swinging is left to question. It was first reported by the media as "wife-swapping" in the 1950's practiced in Southern California and within the military. It is reported that wife-swapping was initiated by military husbands going off to WW1. Friends would arrange parties to wish each other well and the men left behind would promise that if anything happened to a soldier that they would take care of his wife's needs (including sexually). Later, key parties were created where couples would arrive together and the husband would deposit his keys in a bowl. At the end of the night a woman would choose a set of keys and go home with the keys owner. . . again, harkening to the term wife-swapping. Another account of this particular historical event has them referred to as "key clubs" where husbands reportedly tossed their house keys into a pile in the center of the room where they were drawn at random by the wives. The owner of a selected key was the sexual partner for the evening. Whether or not this story if fact or fiction, it probably holds some merit of truth.
Within a few years, a variety of national and local magazines catering to the needs of swingers appeared. At that time the chief way of meeting other swingers at that time was through personal ads. These publications offered column after column of such ads, many illustrated by nude and revealing photos placed by swinging couples and hopeful singles. Around the same time, Swing clubs began as house parties. Groups of swinging couples would meet at each other's homes. Some bars and lounges began catering to swingers, and most swinging early on was in the larger metropolitan areas of California, Chicago and New York. By 1972 there were at least 18 on-premise house parties in Southern California.
Swinging quietly evolved in many parts of the United States, particularly in the Berkeley - San Francisco and Hollywood - Los Angeles areas, Chicago and perhaps New York City. One of the earliest swing clubs, was The Group, later called the In Crowd, in Orange County, California. At first, swing clubs were informal gatherings at members' homes or at the homes of leaders of the clubs. Most clubs were informal in nature and membership was generally through another member by referral. Certain cocktail lounges and bars began catering to a growing clientele: Topley II in Los Angeles and the Swing in nearby Encino, California gained national publicity and notoriety. The Sexual Freedom League in Berkeley, California in the 1960's may have been the first to be open and public about swing parties. The SFL regularly held swing parties for members along with other social and political activities.
Clubs, in tandem with cocktail lounges, then began in New York and a few other cities. The lounges were meeting places for members of the clubs. Actual swinging (arranged privately among members) was reserved for private homes or rented motel rooms. In other parts of the country, principally the South, Midwest and Pacific Northwest, Socials and Circles developed. The activities of this style of swing club were and still are generally dances. Swinging was a private matter arranged among the member couples attending the dances and was engaged in elsewhere.
Swinging in California evolved along different lines. By the spring of 1972 there were eighteen party houses and social swing clubs in Southern California, principally Hollywood, Los Angeles and Orange County. Some had been in operation for several years. All offered what later became what later became known as "on-premise" parties: swinging took place at the party sponsored by the club. A few of these had straight forward club names; Sexual Freedom Movement, Wide World Social Swing Club, Caberet; but others were more exotic; Ecstatics, House of Love and Love of Blue Light.
Plato's Retreat in New York City, and the publicity it garnered, was the catalyst for "on-premise" swinging on the East Coast. Swinging in the east was primarily "off-premise" until Plato's, hence the new terms. Though swinging at most California swing clubs had always been on-premise, the term was not used prior to the advent of Plato's.
In 1973, The Lifestyles Organization held their first convention in Riverside California. Over the last 30 years the lifestyle has become more and more "out", as it has continued to spread across the country and into even the most secluded areas. The advent of the swinger magazine in the 70's and 80's helped swingers in finding other like-minded people. Prior to that you would mainly find other swingers through people that you knew. During this time more and more clubs were opening as well (both on-premise and now off-premise socials).
Though the swing clubs and magazines helped swinging to grow, the real backbone of swinging has always been the individual men and women who adopted swinging as part of their lifestyle. These people live in every part of the country. No one knows their total number but it is substantial and growing. A published report by two well-known sociologists predicted that eventually 15% to 25% of all American married couples would adopt swinging as part of their lifestyle during some period of their marriage.
Today, organized swinging can be found in most parts of the United States, populous areas of Canada, parts of England, France, Germany and Japan. In addition, there are a great number who swing privately with friends and others met through personal ads in swing publications. Many swing clubs offer group discussions and travel in addition to swing parties and socials.
In the 80's, the advent of the internet helped the lifestyle grow through anonymity. BBS's were popular and people met on these boards to discuss any sort of topic. This allowed swingers a new venue for meeting others. As the internet grew, knowledge of the lifestyle became almost common. People who had been practicing swinging for years finally found that there was a name for it and more and more people came "out of the closet" so to speak and found new friends. Younger couples were discovering this previously unknown territory and opening their minds to it. A lifestyle that was one primarily peopled by couples in their 40's and 50's was becoming an activity shared by younger couples as well.
Computers and the Internet are fast become the most important tools for swingers. With its global-wide reach and instant communication it will probably totally replace the magazines and personal ad papers in the next few years. Soon most all personal ads and swinging information will be available in the World Wide Web.
Swinging has come a long way since the early days of the 1950's. It is probable that today more new couples begin swinging yearly than the combined number of the first two decades of modern swinging. This can't be quantified, but if you join a site such as www.adultfriendfinder.com and see how many million members they have worldwide, you fast learn that as a couple - you are not alone.
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